我在这里的另外一个帖子说过,你的诠释绝对正确。
但是看到楼主那种 “烦人” 的说法,我就煞有介事地给出另外一种解释,而他貌似也没有和我纠结下去
事实上,作者的原意是什么也不一定重要。在文学评论里,有 reader-response theory:
Reader-response criticism is a school of literary theory that focuses on the reader (or "audience") and his or her experience of a literary work, in contrast to other schools and theories that focus attention primarily on the author or the content and form of the work. (wiki)
对于在热恋中的朋友,可以把该句理解为爱与痛并存;而对于经历过由激情转为平淡的朋友来说,则可以理解做云淡风轻的日子