1. She's Independent
1. 独立
No one gets into a relationship to be a babysitter. If she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on. But if she can't seem to function without you, you'll eventually suffocate, and if you're smart you'll run for the nearest exit.
谁也不想变成另一半的老妈子。如果她今天工作超累，你很乐意提供抚慰的肩膀。但如果她离了你就不行，总有一天你会窒息崩溃的。你要足够聪明，就赶快逃开！

3. She's Sexual
3.性感
For instance, if you're into S&M and she's more the "fluffy lingerie" type, that's a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page.
举个栗子：你喜欢SM，她却爱穿蓬松的内衣，那可能是个问题。在这点上得保持一致哦！

4. You're Attracted To Her
4.她吸引你
I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. Being seen with her should make you feel better about yourself. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Your mutual attraction should make you both want to stay looking your best.
这个看起来显而易见，但真的很重要！和她走在一起，你应该感到自豪。不是说她得变成海蒂·克鲁姆（维密天使之一）的样子，而是你们能互相吸引、持续点亮对方的优点！

5. She Respects You
5.她尊重你
This is a biggie. A great girlfriend will keep major disputes private rather than taking you down in public. She'll make an effort to see things from your point of view (provided you do the same for her). The key here is that the respect be mutual.
这条重要了！一个超棒的女友是不会让你在公开场合下不来台的，她会把争议放在私下解决。她会努力理解你的观点（我们假装你也能理解她）。此处的关键就是：尊重是相互的。

8. She Gets Along With Your Friends And Family
8.她和你的亲友相处甚欢
She'll help your parents out at Thanksgiving, try to understand your brother's twisted sense of humor. Your friends won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys when she gets off work -- she's one of the crowd.
她会在帮你爸妈一起准备感恩节，试着听懂你兄弟曲折的笑话。你的朋友不会在听说她要一起来玩时哀鸿遍野。她是你社交圈的一份子！

9. She Loves You
9.她爱你
If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her.
如果你碰到一个女人，她喜爱你真实的模样，而不是伪装，一定要紧紧抓住她！

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